Being laid back is a major dating tip. You need to have your nerves controlled. Too often I witness a man fidget and rock back on his heels when with females. Guys get way too nervous about the idea of chatting with a female that they usually give off odd body language. Relax, and do not think about it that much. Don’t forget, picking up should be fun, not a labored process.
Even more significant than being handsome is being comfortable with yourself. As a matter of fact, if you’re short and terrible looking but you are extremely comfortable with yourself, it can be an advantage over attractive, well built guys. Women may even think to them self, “Wow, this guy is short & unattractive but it doesn’t phase him one bit. He must be genuinely happy with himself. This guy the variety of powerful, assured man I need”. Be mindful that any positive attribute you are stuck with can become a good one. When you were young, you were more silly. You played with females, goofed with them and that is how you flirted. Don’t confuse what I’m saying with being immature. You’re not saying silly nonsense and being a clown. You’re just acting a little more carefree.
Learn to be a cocky and funny guy. Every guy tries the same approach. Guys buy her a drink, kisses her butt and attempts to impress her day in and day out. Guys brag and try to act macho, guys try to buy a girl’s fondness and they try to make her like them. You cannot make a female intrigued with logic. You need to be somewhat bold. I hope you enjoyed these good dating tips for guys.
By: Chris Jeffries
Most men are on the lookout for whatever dating tips they can get. It’s good to have an edge while with a girl you have just meet or trying to make a good first impression. By the way, the first impression is pretty important and you only get one chance at it.
On your personality, be humorous and have fun because everyone likes to laugh. Laughter brings out good emotional feelings in everyone and how can you go wrong with that. Of course don’t be non stop funny, add humor into the situations where it fits in nicely.
Be respectful to your date by treating her like a lady. Open the door for her and etc., this kind of stuff still works now as it did years ago. Many women don’t always get this kind of treatment and they can really appreciate you for it. Of course if the two of you hit it off and become a couple you need to keep up the respectful treatment.
Be yourself; do not try to be someone you are not because it can catch up with you at some point. If you’re nervous that’s normal, just act like you are in control and you will be OK. It’s the guy that appears in control and confident that will appeal to women over the guys that are shy and quiet.
If you are not sure what to do you can find many books that give you everything you need to know about dating and talking to women. It’s smart to practice what you learn so it comes smoother when you are really on a date. Even the pros at this, practice to make perfect.
By: Makoo L.
